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    If I let my manager know about my condition, we can discuss changes to my job like reduced hours or a different schedule – these could help me keep working or support my recovery.

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    Talking about my experiences might encourage others to be more open about mental health at work, as well as helping to change people’s attitudes.

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    My colleagues have been asking where I’ve been when I’ve had to take time off work. Being upfront about it might stop rumours spreading or people gossiping.

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    I’ve been missing deadlines and my work hasn’t been to my usual standard. I would rather people knew about my condition than having them think I was slacking off – they’re more likely to be understanding.

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    My colleagues are a pretty close-knit bunch and I think they’ll be supportive. A couple of other people have talked about their mental health conditions at work, and everyone was really positive and empathetic.

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    Being open and upfront about what I’ve been going through will be helpful in case there is any dispute about my performance with my employer in the future.

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    I’m being performance-managed/facing disciplinary action and my boss doesn’t understand what’s been going on for me. I think it might help if I explain I’ve been experiencing a mental health condition that has affected me at work.

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    My boss has noticed I’ve been acting differently lately and has expressed concern. It would be a relief as I’m sick of trying to hide it and I think my employer will be supportive.

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Cons of telling my employer

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    I’m confident that I can manage my condition – it doesn’t affect my ability to do my job.

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    I don’t need any adjustments to my workload or schedule at the moment.

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    I’m worried that my boss will think differently about my ability and potential, and it could affect my career prospects.

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    I’m uncertain about the level of support my boss will provide. I know there is legislation to protect me, but I’d be concerned that my employer would do the bare minimum and it wouldn’t really help me.

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    I have a strong network outside work that I can rely on and I’m not at a point where I need any additional support.

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    I’m worried about what my boss/colleagues will say. I’m not sure they understand what it’s like to have a mental health condition or how it can affect a person. They might think I’m weak or not pulling my weight.

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    I don’t want to have to talk about it with anyone at work. Even though I think they’ll be understanding I just don’t want to have to discuss this personal stuff with them.

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    I’m not sure it will stay confidential. I’m comfortable talking to my boss about this but don’t want anyone else to know and I don’t want it going on my employment record.

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    I’m worried that if people found out they could use this against me somehow or that I might be discriminated against.

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